People that become your friend through your fame/success and are after nothing more than being a 'hanger-on' will bring you down.
You need to have trust and faith in those that were present before you 'made it' and also stay grounded in reality.
Sure there will always be some people who slag you, but instead of sweeping it under the carpet (I'm talking to YOU Above & Beyond) by banning them from forums and ignoring them, try to listen to what they say.
Often it's easy to tell the difference between a true fan giving a constructive criticism and a 'hater' slagging you for no good reason.
That said if Jules is enjoying himself, likes the sound he now plays and is still coining it in then who are we to argue with him and tell him what to do?